An addendum to my post on dating.
This is a brief attempt at trying to better explain my previous post on me not knowing how to date. Due to the response that post received, and the fact that I’m now receiving offers from multiple life coaches for free sessions to find “the one”, I decided a better explanation was in order.
1 :: I am perfectly content right now as a single gal. I am not wishing, or waiting, for Mr. Right to sweep me off my feet right now. Sure, I wouldn’t mind *at all* if he were around…but he’s not. And that is really. and truly. fine. by. me.
2 :: My post was more about the fact that I don’t know HOW to date. Meaning, I have a hard time just having fun with the whole process. Instead, I feel I pretty much know from the first few interactions if a guy is going to be someone I really want to be around. I don’t consider that a bad thing…but there are times I second guess myself and wonder if I’m so serious that I’m missing out. There are other times I’m simply thankful to be that serious because it saves me a lot of time.
3 :: The final point I was trying to make about me not knowing how to date was that, even armed with all my seriousness and discernment, I’ve managed to pick some not-so-nice guys in the past.
There it is. Hopefully that makes more sense. Eh? Does it? Oh, and in case you’re curious. I have made my final selection on a life coach. ; )
Tags: dating, explanations, life coaches
Thank you, for such a clear and comprehensive post. Since I’ve been reading you, I feel I have begun to understand more about this topic. Please keep writing. I just hope people are listening to you and reading you.
I am right there with you girl! Even though you and I don’t talk as much as we did when we were actually living in the same place A L L those years ago, I get you and I’m so glad you have said exactly what I feel too! I love you sweet friend!!